How to Beg

Anonymous asked: My girl's into being dominated but it's something I've never done before. She says she likes the ideas of having tasks, any suggestions?

Hi anon.  I can appreciate this question.  Sometimes a person can be motivated, but get stuck as to what exactly to do.  I’ve grown my own repertoire by reading (books, Fetlife, tumblr), watching people play at parties and talking with my girl about it.

Most of the time, when people talk about being dominated, they mean sexually, but there are certainly many ways to dominate somebody non-sexually as well.  I’m not sure which you mean (perhaps both), but I would suggest focusing on what sounds fun to you.  

When I think of tasks, two things come to mind.  Being commanding, as in “Do this.  Now do this other thing.” or giving assignments, as in “I want dinner to be ready when I get home.  I want chicken and potatoes.”

I give my girl lots of this kind of thing.  Some examples of what I do may be helpful to get you thinking.  She cooks me dinner (exactly what I ask) and cleans up.  She showers and shaves her pussy exactly how I ask before each date.  She has a drink ready for me when I arrive and cleans her room, getting out the lube and toys.  Don’t be afraid to treat her like a servant.  In the moment, I just tell her what to do on my whim — get me another beer, sit on the floor while we eat, go into the bedroom and take off your clothes, suck my cock until I tell you to stop, spread your legs and touch yourself while I watch.  Stuff like that.  Sometimes it is things that are good for her: time to go to bed.  Go to the gym x days this week.

Sometimes girls who like to be ordered around also like a little humiliation which can be more intense/edgy.  We play with that just a bit.  Make her crawl, be naked, ask permission to cum, beg for things she wants.  Do what sounds fun/sexy to you.

Hope that helps.